Tuesday, April 6, 2010

What I will miss about Rochester . . .

About a month ago we had a wonderful snowstorm . . . the best of the season. The trend this year was igloos and snow huts.

One of the best things about Whipple Park is how neighbors always join in. A few days ago we were dying Easter eggs outside. Within minutes, the table was surrounded by girls ages 2 to 10, many of whom had never seen eggs colored before (we have a lot of foreign residents).






Beautiful Ranunculus

Thanks again Anna. We loved having you over!
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Monday, April 5, 2010

C'est la vie

Spent the morning curled under my "special" blanket on the couch while the boys tossed occasional cuddles as they ran past . Aukai doted on me. I indulged in the anti-folk music of Regina Spektor and the beautiful ranunculus bouquet that my always-thoughtful friend brought for Easter. All-in-all, a wonderful way to spend a crisp, Spring morning. Now, if I could just stop puking . . .

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

The best marriage advice I ever recieved

Dave was a perfectionist. The home was no exception. When he complained to his mother that his spouse could not keep the house clean when all she had to worry about was their young children, his mother said this:

"Dave, your wife is far too talented to waste all of her time cleaning up. So if there is a mess, either step over it or clean it up yourself."

Best advice I had as an at-home mother, and now as a working mother with an at-home hubbie. I should have this mounted over my mantle.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

In case you wanted to know how my week's been going . . .



three men. four colds (and a pregnancy). enough said.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Confessions of a sick mommy

When I was about 6 years old, my aunt made this beautiful orange gingham quilt for my parents' bed . . . which I quickly stole and adopted as my special blanket. Maybe it was my consolation for the fact that I didn't have a bed for about 6 years (don't feel too bad, another aunt bought me a comfy futon to sleep on). Regardless, this blanket has remained one of my prized possessions.

That is until (dun, dun, dun) . . .

Ashton discovered it in my closet.

War has now begun.

At first, you see, I thought it was sweet that he wanted to sleep with my special blanket. It was like lending him part of my childhood. But now things are different. I am sick . . . and throwing up . . . and as pathetic as it is, I WANT MY WOOBY BACK!

Last night while I was puking in the toilet, I spotted Ashton dragging the prized quilt to his room. Mid-vomit, I snapped to attention. "Ashton, what are you doing?"

"I need this blanket to sleep with."

"But Ashton, that's MY blanket."

"But, I need it to sleep with, and you don't need it until it's REALLY night time."

He had a point. So exhausted, I conceded. And once he was blissfully asleep, I snatched it right off of him, put a newer and cleaner blanket over him and curled up in my bed to sleep with my old friend.

Pregnancy sure brings out the best in us.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Here we go . . .

So it is official! As of Thursday at noon, we are officially going to Washington University in St. Louis for pediatrics, which means we'll be there for a full five years with my neuro years included.

And for the first time it feels real. Like, really real. I am going to be a doctor in 2 months. And the terrifying thing is I won't know anything more than I know in this very moment.

There is an old saying among interns: Don't get sick in July. This is because July is the month all the new interns start working . . . and making mistakes . . . and breaking down in the corridor because they realize they have no idea how to treat that kid in room 3 with a tracheostomy who keeps vomiting blood-tinged sputum.

*sigh*

That said, we are starting to look for housing, and the choices are overwhelming. Do we buy, rent, lease, find a condo, duplex, apartment, house. And how close can we afford to live. And which school districts are good? And which one's are not accredited? How much can we afford? And what are the hidden costs?

That's the strange things about having a real job. You suddenly have to be . . . responsible.

That said, it's been fun looking for housing. I love this small brick cottage:


But also find something charming about this small fixer-upper (about 30,000 less):